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they rang me up and said I wouldn't mind
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that coffee and I said oh when he said
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now that was in the December and in the
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May we made a commitment to get married
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we tried to hide it from Provost but we
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got sprung at a church meeting which was
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very embarrassing and when when we got
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married we talked about how we would use
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our money wisely I told him about my
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obesity mission as much as the charity
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that I I've supported Malcolm's major
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was economics and he did financial
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planning and he was had to be sure that
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you know the money was going to a good
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cause and not just a good cause but it
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was being spent wisely he also studied
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the balance sheets
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he became very convinced that Melbourne
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City Mission was doing a great job
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what's giving us that passion to to want
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to leave our legacy truth Melbourne City
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mission for the future I certainly
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wouldn't flaunt leaving the quests
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because I think that that's a very
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personal thing but I think that I would
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encourage people to have enough to dated
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will
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we just had that wonderful love you know
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he was a very his gorgeous man he really
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was very lucky to have had him we said a
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beautiful prayer every night and was
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some I read it at his eulogy may we
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never be too mean to give not too proud
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to receive for in giving and receiving
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when own to love and be loved we
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encounter the meaning of life the
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mystery of existence and discovery here
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that was that prayer every night
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I still say
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and that's what Melbourne City mission
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do they act they act on helping other
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people
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